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Hey guys? I miss answering questions and giving advices. :(

Sun, 19 Jun 2011 00:52:50 -0400

i need some help, please.
so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two months now... and today's the last day of school. this is a problem because i would have no contact [expect facebook and IMing] with him during the summer because my parents won't let me do anything. i can't call him because i don't have a phone. i can't hang out with him because i won't be home. and he'll be in high school next year while i'm stuck as an eight grader at my middle school. what should i do? should i end it or should i just keep going?

Thu, 16 Jun 2011 06:39:54 -0400

Are you from Philippines? And. I love that Count On Me by Bruno Mars. :D

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If both of you could hold on to each other, then why not try to keep your relationship going. Remember, long distance relationships doesn’t end because of distance. It depends on how you will handle your relationship even though you’re far away from each other.

I hope that the two of you would be okay. Goodluck for the two of you. :)

Hey guys. Thank you for following. And thanks to those promo blogs :)

Wed, 15 Jun 2011 10:34:35 -0400

I love you all. And I promise, even though you unfollow me, I won’t unfollow you. :)

hey, i was at this party and towards the end i was drunk and my bestfriend got on (snogged) my boyfriend, at the time i didnt really care, but now when i've looked at the pictures and people have told me what happened, i dont know what to do, we're still together, and he always says his sorry, and he didnt mean it, but she slaped me the other day for her doing that to my boyfriend, i dont know what to do help me?xxx

Tue, 14 Jun 2011 05:18:57 -0400

Well, you should talk to your man and tell him that he has done something wrong. Besides, that was really his fault. But maybe your bestfriend and him are just drunk, possibly.

But on the other side, it’s still his fault. Try to fix things about you and him. Goodluck.. :)

Have you heard of this song?

Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats

their was this boy in my class, and we was bestfriends, everyone thought we was going out because we was that close, but we was in like 2 different worlds, we would go out different places, sometimes hang around with differnent people, but one day he did something stupid and ended up pushing the teacher, he got perminatly excluded, so he couldnt go back to school, i really only talked to him in lessons, and on facebook, but it meant so much to me, now he dont even reply to me or nothing, i remember he waited for me after school, and he dont even walk my way home, but he walked me home and half way home he told me he HAD to move, i burst out crying into his arms, ever since that day he hasnt spoke to me, and ive felt like complete crap, i resaulted to cutting but he saw me and noticed them and told me to stop, what should i do?

Tue, 14 Jun 2011 05:07:09 -0400

Don’t you think he’s just concern about your feelings?

I think he doesn’t want to see you sacrificing, and crying. As he said, he had to move. How can he move away from you if he did not keep a distance?

Maybe he just tries to ignore you because he doesn’t want to miss you when he already moved out.

My advice for you is..

Try talking to him. And let him know what you feel. I know that he has feelings for you too. But it’s either if he’s concerned for you as a friend, or as your lover.

Try to listen on this song:

Goodbye To You - Michelle Branch (:

Take care.

I miss answering questions and giving advices. Would you guys give me one please? :)

Mon, 13 Jun 2011 09:19:18 -0400

Ohmy. Was shocked of the new Tumblr. :|

Thu, 09 Jun 2011 03:47:55 -0400

Heey ! First I loooove what you do, your an inspiration to me and should be for a lot of people, I mean helping people you don't know is ahhhmazing !! (: but now to my problem. I'm having problems with my selfsteem lately I just think about all the things I wish I could be and I want to change. Like get fit and be more outgoing and stuff but I never know how to start. All the people at school think there's something wrong with me like they say i look mad or sad but Im not, I just want to change myself completely. Does that make sense? The other thing is that when i like a guy its like i become obssesed but i cant even talk to the guy? People tell me to flirt but i dont know how ? Idk if you can give me some advice ?

Tue, 07 Jun 2011 23:31:28 -0400

Ohmy. Exact story of my life… :|

For me, you should act just like yourself to see the real people who really knows you. Don’t bother changing your qualities for other people. I mean, we don’t have to act like someone else and make everyone like us.

No matter what happens, whatever we do, everybody sees our mistakes, but not our good qualities. Stay as who you are. And don’t change. In the end of the day, you’ll know why everybody likes you for being who you are. Goodluck! :)

PS.

Thanks for saying those words. Why don’t help if we can, right? :)

:o how convenient..
well, i have this friend. she ended up going to a different high school and we haven't seen each other since last summer. we occasionally talk but nowadays, she won't even say hi to me anymore, via facebook or anything. it feels like she doesn't want to speak to me anymore.. i've tried contacting her, but she never replies.. idk if she doesn't want to speak with me anymore, or she doesn't have time...

Mon, 06 Jun 2011 05:00:04 -0400

Why isn’t she talking to you? Have you done something wrong that made her ignore you? Maybe you should see her personally to know the real thing. Talk to her and ask her why does she not talk to you.

Ask her if you have done somthing wrong. Or maybe there’s something you don’t know.

Thanks a lot. <3

Sun, 05 Jun 2011 23:09:24 -0400

Thanks a lot. <3

So, I go to a trailer every summer, and theres a new boy. Hes my age, and cute. I am starting to develop an interest in him. The one problem is that I dont know him that well. He is very quiet and keeps to himself. I have introduced myself to him and I did most of the talking, but Im confused on what to do now.

Sun, 05 Jun 2011 23:03:46 -0400

Wow. Well, that kind of guys who’s really mysterious is hard to be with.

Maybe he doesn’t really talk to new people like you. Give him time to know you more. And let him do the rest.

In that way, just act like a normal girl. Like yourself. Don’t pretend and make him fall with that unreal you. Just be yourself. If he’;s for you, then he is. :)

Go girl power! :D

Okay, so I really like this boy, but he doesnt like me back.. We have had lots of history. Two years ago, we were kinda a "Thing", but I drifted apart, and we stopped talking. Last year, we were a "Thing" Again.. But this time, I moved to another highschool, and we stopped seeing eachother. After 6 months, we hungout, and my feelings instantly came back. I thought his was too. Later that night, he was texting my friend and said he moved on, and those feelings are never coming back, and he was hurt by my actions. I really dont want to let go, but he said his feelings will never come back.. I dont know what to do..

Sat, 04 Jun 2011 10:10:53 -0400

Since that the guy doesn’t like you anymore, don’t you think it’s time to stay away and forget about him?

He told your friend that you already moved on. It’s also time for you to move on. It will only make you depressed if you wait in vain.

Go find some new things which will make you busy and enjoyed.

Goodluck :)

Thank you so much Anon! <3

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 00:20:20 -0400

Thank you so much Anon! <3

you didnt understand my last one haha :\
but. this girl i am pretty much in love with is "dating" this other guy. they arent really dating, they are more "friends with benefits". anyways, hes an absolute dick. doesnt treat her right or anything like that. i know i will treat her right. and sometimes she flirts with me.. i dont know what to do?

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 00:17:02 -0400

Why don’t you try telling her? Does she know about your feelings?

Tell her the things that she do not realize. Maybe she really likes this guy that’s why she doesn’t see the wrong things.

I'm a girl and i'm straight, but recently i've been having sexual thoughts about one of my friends who is also a girl. I'm confused.

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 00:11:55 -0400

I think it’s normal. There are some girls or some guys who also having sexual thoughts for the same sex. Just prevent yourself from thinking sexual thougts. :)

just thought id ask for a bit of advice...?
I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three months now, and well everything is fine. Except for the major fact of our lack of communication. NEVER has he called me beautiful or pretty or perfect or just any of those little things boys are meant to tell you. I remember once, i told him i missed him.. his response 'um its only been like 5 days since we saw eachother. lol' it doesnt seem right, does it? Ive tried talking to him multiple times about this situation, butu he never takes any of it in. He knows im going through a hard time at the moment, especially on body image as im going through a phase of an emerging eating disorder, having to see a specialist and stuff. I need to hear those compliments from him to help me out through things, but its just not there. Its not even the fact of him complimenting, i mean i dont want him to say things he doesnt mean, but its just that i want him to be abke to open up to me more then he usually does. His a very quiet guy, not the type id usually date. But he seems differnt, which is what i like, but i need support now or i cant last with him. I really dont no what to do right now

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 08:52:51 -0400

Aw. He acts cold.

I fell sorry for your eating disorder. Please get well soon.

Well, the best thing to do is really talk to him, that it’s what you need. Tell him that he should listen to your problems. If he really loves you, then he’ll listen to your problems.

If not, cry and let all your bad feelings out. It will decrease your worries. But you should really tell him about that. Because he’s the only guy who would really understand you.

Get well!

i'm gay and the girl i like is straight.

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 08:44:32 -0400

It doesn’t really matter if you’re gay. Have you told her your feelings?Why not try? Maybe she wouldn’t mind it. You better tell her. If she declines, then accept it.. :)

Goodluck dear !

I'm a girl and I like girls. But no one knows. Now, there's this girl, let's call her L. L and her gf have been fighting and will probably break up. I really like L. Today, we talked and held hands, but she doesn't know I like girls and she always wishes I was a lesbian. But the thing is, I dont want ANYONE knowing I like girls. What do I do? (Sorry if this sounds stupid) D:

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 08:41:49 -0400

It’s not stupid. Nobody is.

Now that she wishes that you’re a lesbian, maybe you should tell her your feelings. And let her know the truth.

You might have a relationship secretly. It’s hard to keep a secret but if you really want, then why not try if she likes it too.

Goodluck. :)

Okay. so. i pretty much love this girl, who is my best friend. she has a thing with this guy. they arent dating. and he is an absolute dick. i dont know what to do?

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 08:34:41 -0400

You mean this girl likes this guy? Well, you better confess before he goes first! Goodluck bro.

Can you give me some advice?
Okay, there's this guy. Let's call him D. I've known him for a few years. He used to be my brother's best friend. That's how I met him. Back then, he used to really, really like me. I kind of liked him, too, but I never really followed through with those feelings at that point in time. I know I probably hurt him, but I just never wanted to be that much with him right then and there. Now, he has a girlfriend, who we'll call Z. D and Z have been dating on and off for two years. I don't know much about their relationship. All I know is what I see on Facebook. Before they got together this time around, about a month ago, we had a very flirtatious conversation. A few days later though, he got together with Z again. Throughout this, we've had conversation that were slightly flirtatious, but not as much as before, which makes sense because he has a girlfriend. He really loves her a lot, because, as I've said, she's a really jealous person, and she gives him hell. Anyway, about a week ago, he stopped talking to me. Like, when I text him, he doesn't text back. He's pretty much ignoring me. I hate it. Now, I've talked to my friend about it, and she said that Z doesn't really let D talk to other girls. This might be why he stopped talking to me or not. I don't know. BUT yesterday we talked for a couple hours. We were both using smileys. I don't know what it means. Like, is he not allowed to talk to me or does he just not want it? Ugh. I also don't know if he likes me or not. I mean, like I said, he used to, but I really don't think he does anymore. He has been with Z for two years. I'm sure he's all for her. Anyway, does flirting count as liking? I don't think so. I feel like it's just innocence, you know? But you never know. I really like him, but I feel like if I tell him now, he'll feel like he has to choose between me and Z. I don't want him to have to do that. I would NEVER ruin anyone's relationship intentionally. I'm not that kind of person. What do you think I should do? What would you do if you were in my position?
Thanks. I've asked a lot of people about this. They've all given me different answers. I'm just waiting to hear yours.

Tue, 31 May 2011 09:08:12 -0400

If he really doesn’t have feelings for you, he should’ve stopped flirting or talking to you after like how many years. If he’s seriously in love with his girl, then he should be focusing on her.

I think there are still some feelings for you. If the feelings are already gone, then why would he bother spend time talking to you?

If you really like him, tell him. But don’t let him break up with her. Surely, you and his girl will have a big war.

Just wait for his decision. :)